Meet your coach

I’m Nikki, a mum, a widow and a doctor. My husband Fletch died in a car crash driving to work in 2018. My life changed instantly. Shattered. Grieving, isolated away from my support network in a renovation project house in the country, whilst on maternity leave. I am not sure I could have felt more lost and alone. Surrounded by packing boxes with our youngest just 3 months old along with his 2-year-old sister and 4-year-old brother. I had to rebuild my life. It was not easy, but I did it and I am truly happy.

Alongside my real-life experience as a widowed mum, I am a doctor with 20 years of experience working in the NHS, an accredited coach and an Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist.

I know what it is like…

 

To have your entire world obliterated

To feel truly on your own to work out what to do

To have everything resting on you, whilst trying to make sense of your grief

To feel totally overwhelmed

To try to run from your grief, by keeping busy, putting on a mask and have that catch up with you as you burn out

But I learned

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Your person dying does not mean your life is over

Working out your priorities allows you to grow your life around your grief

Processing your grief allows you to move forward whilst honouring your person

Ultimately you can learn to love your life

Go for it! It really makes you think about your loss, how you have dealt with it and how you can change this for the better

This is not the end of your story

Together let’s create your next chapter…